Parents are the ones who decide whether and when to have a child, but the child is in fact only chooses his parents and finds its way to them, believe in an African tribe, based on the logic that you want to be realistic.

There is a tribe in Africa where the date of birth of the child is not counted from the day when it came into the world, even from the moment he was conceived, from the day when the child was thought in her mother’s mind.1024270_75442903

And when a woman decides to have a child, she goes and sits under a tree, alone, and listening until you hear the song of a child who wants to come.

And when you hear a song that child, returns to the man who will be the child’s father, that he learns. Then, when you make love to physically conceive the child, while the child sing the song as a way to invoke it.

And when the pregnant mother teaches midwives and other old women in the village child song to a child is born, old women and men around her sang a song for the child’s welcome.

Later, as the child grows, and other villagers learn the child’s song. If a child falls or hurts knee, someone will pick it up and sing it to him. Or when a child does something great or go through puberty rites, the people in the village sing his or her song.

If at any time during its life, the person commits a crime or unacceptable social act, called the center of the village and all the people from the community were engulfed. Then her sing her song.

Tribes realizes that correction anti-social behavior is not punishment, but love and a reminder of the identity. When you recognize your own song, you have no desire or need to do something to hurt someone else.

You do not have to grow up in an African tribe that will sing your song at all important life transitions, because your life is reminiscent of when you are in tune with themselves, and when you’re not.African child

When you feel good, what you do is in line with your song, and when you feel awful, it’s not. In the end, we all recognize our song and sing it well we will.

Maybe a little shaking at this point, but it happens to the best singers.Just keep singing and you will discover a way to return home.